Have You Grieved?

There is something essential about the process of realizing you’re a Manifestor:

Grieving.

Realizing you’re a Manifestor can be awesome. It can also be a punch in the gut, when you realize just how different you are.

You might have felt different from everyone else all your life. Human Design may be the ultimate validation of your instinct on that. At the same time, it can be sobering.

Manifestors really aren’t like everyone else.

When you live like yourself as a Manifestor, you will say goodbye to a lot of things.

In the long run, shedding the old is essential for the process of becoming you. In the beginning, it can bring up a lot of complicated emotions and resistance.

Grieving the loss of who you’re not - a cute sacral with a jucy, enveloping aura, for example - is an essential part of becoming a Manifestor. 

Peace can happen, when you let go of who you think you should have been. That’s conditioning, anyways.